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6 Tips to Build Self-confidence

I’m sure you’ve felt it before. You get all dolled up for a night out looking your finest and then BAM!! Someone you think is hotter, richer, more successful and way more fascinating than little old you enters the room and knocks all the confidence right out of you. It’s a horrible feeling that you DON’T have to live with.

Just look at countless “celebrities” who have no identifiable talent and aren’t better looking than the average Joe yet manage to peddle every product from canned wine to old toothbrushes.

How can you fake and eventually build your self-confidence to this level? Take these internal and external factors to heart.

Internal

1)   Stop Apologizing for nothing. You’re not perfect and never will be thus are allowed to make mistakes and pursue the things that you think will make you happy. Don’t apologize for dumping the wrong partner, wanting money or things that other people deem crazy. If other people can attain these things, why can’t you?

2)   Stop comparing yourself to others in terms of looks and success. Imagine if everyone had the same “type”, the planet would be filled with illiterate inbreds. So what if your old buddy from high school is loaded and you’re not. Stop complaining about it do something about it. Unless, your buddy has super human powers, you can achieve the same level of success as long as you actually move that booty.

3)   Stop predicting the future. Unless you have fully developed your physic powers, you have no idea what taking a risk will actually lead you. If you tell yourself that it will never work, it never will. Tell the logical side of your brain to stop talking and be brave enough to pursue a goal that you predict you will never attain.

 External

4)      Smell nice. According to the International Journal of Cosmetic Science, “when a man changes his natural body odor it can alter his self-confidence to such an extent that it also changes how attractive women find him”. See, if you give off confident vibes, others WILL believe you and what better way than smell? After all we are mere animals.

5)      Splurge on yourself. This doesn’t mean you have to spend your life savings on a purse rather that you should indulge in something that makes you feel richer and more attractive. If you don’t believe that you deserve nice things why should anyone else?

6)      Stop Hiding! Go outside without your sunglasses, a straight back and actually make eye-contact with people. Be a part of your environment rather than just a mere object.